I want to share this topic from last thursday Wildsons to you girls but it is better if it is personally so that you wil feel the presence of God, don't ignore it.. Promise you will enlighten what is the real meaning of Love. I just only share the outline.
"TRUE LOVE WAITS"
-Don't search it, just wait
A. Cost of not Waiting
1. Physical
-STD "Sexually Transmitted Disease"
-Early Pregnancy
-Abortion
"you are worth for waiting"
2.Emotional
-Guilt
-Self-worth
-Depression
3.Spiritual
-Disobedience to God
Galatians 6:7-9
"Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows. The one who sows to please his sinful nature, from that naturea will reap destruction; the one who sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life. Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up."
B.How to stay pure?
1.Protect your mind
Ephesians 4:22-24
"You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; to be made new in the attitude of your minds;and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness."
Philippians 4:8
"Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable--if anything is excellent or praiseworthy--think about such things."
"I will not object of destruction"
2.Do not accomodate sins
James 4:7
"Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you."
-know how to set your limitations
-have a boundary
3.Decide in advance
Job 31:1
"I made a covenant with my eyes not to look lustfully at a girl."
C.5 Commitments as I wait
-Commitment to God
-Commitment to myself
-Commitment to my family
-commitment to my friends
-commitment to my future partner and future children
A sweet truth:
When God knows your ready for the responsibility of commitment, he'll reveal the right person under the right circumstances. Wait patiently. Don't waste your time searching and wishing. Grow and be ready. and you will see, God will give you a love story far better than you could ever dream of.
Genesis 2:18 The LORD God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.”
-Let God be the one who has an authority and right to give the suitable partner for us, "DON'T SEARCH BUT WAIT." Focus your life first serving God and to people.. ^___^